Love is a choice, not a feeling. Those butterflies in your stomach from a love interest may not be a “loving” feeling but actually anxiety and fear. I always had issues with my feelings. I was actually called a robot by a former therapist because my emotional response wasn’t normal according to her. I would try to go by people’s actions and not the feelings they gave me, especially when it came to relationships. Unfortunately, a lot of my bad relationships, that I stayed in longer than I should have, is because I tricked myself into believing they loved me. I went by the feelings they gave me or the sweet nothings they told me and not by their actual actions.
Society controls the world’s concept of what true love is. They bombard us with fairy tale love stories via Disney as kids and romantic comedies as adults. Once you reach a certain age and watched so many of these types of movies, you can see the plot a mile away. All these movies push the same theme, “love is a feeling” and “love and pain go hand in hand”. Both purposely conveyed themes and concepts that are very false.
I never viewed love that way and even when I watched Disney movies as a kid I never understood why so much tragedy had to occur to “find” true love. I always knew that love was a choice and not a feeling. But in my early adulthood, I did pair love and pain together. Society had told me all my life that this is how love works. Even my mom encouraged me to stay in messed up relationships because of “love”. When she suggested it when I was with my abusive ex, I knew I had been directed down the wrong path of love all my life. Her response wasn’t logical or came from a place of love.
I’ve always known in my heart that this thing called love was way more than society shows us. Love is a choice, not a feeling and to reference Christ, his act of self-sacrifice was a loving choice and not based on feelings. As noted in the Bible, there are numerous verses where he is asking god why? or telling god “he doesn’t want to do it and is there another way.” When people decide to partner up, the reasons they decide to stay with that person for better or worse are based on a choice. In sickness or health, once again is a choice. I Do or I Don’t!
True love is Divine love and Divine love is Cosmic Universal love. With all things, all is energy and cosmic love is a high vibrational frequency, an energy state that is the same regardless, if it’s on earth or on the 13th dimension. It’s an energetic frequency that can change the unchangeable and penetrate the impenetrable. Divine love is something that everyone can experience, if you can let go of society’s rules on what love is, looks like, feels like, and that it should be partnered with pain. Disregard the Disney princess and romance comedy love stories they stuff down our throats. It’s a program to give you a false sense of what love truly is. Cosmic, universal love is unconditional and a choice to give and receive. A Divine frequency that is always seeking open hearts to activate and align with Divine Source. It is our connection highway back to being in alignment with Divine Source. This love isn’t subject to someone’s behaviors, beliefs, or acts. “It is what it is” and nothing can change what Divine love is or is supposed to be, not even the controllers of our realm.
Just to clarify, Divine love isn’t a pushover or apart of the love and light false agenda, but is a part of the Divine Feminine. The Divine Feminine can be as soft as Quan Yin or as fierce as Sekhmet or Kali, Divine love is an energetic frequency that will operate as it must to bring a situation or person back into alignment with Divine Source.
