How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel unworthy? Do you think you are enough? Often the feelings and thoughts we have about ourselves are subconscious, and we are not aware of what is there.
Usually, it shows as up as how you treat yourself and allow others to treat you. So, how are you treating yourself, and how are you allowing others to treat you? With love, I hope…
Most of us go through life carrying around our baggage from the past – the limiting beliefs we were told as children and throughout our adulthood. “You can’t sing! You can’t dance! You’re too old for that! Really, do you really think you will ever amount to anything? You were successful once, but that was pure luck, you won’t make it to the top again! Who do you think you are? You are nobody! let’s get back to reality now, LOL! You are so stupid! You need to be really intelligent to get into that career.”
These are just the few that I have heard, a few of these were said to me once or twice in my life. Crazy, right, when you read it to yourself? How could I or anyone for that matter, ever believe any of these things about themselves? Sounds crazy even as I write this.
The sad thing is that I did believe these things that were said to me, and many of us do, even if we don’t remember them. We tend to block these memories because they cause us so much pain. These statements, once we take them and hold them as truths about ourselves, create blockages in our systems. We then begin to attract the wrong people, relationships, and situations in our lives. We don’t believe we deserve better. We don’t believe we are enough!
Remember… Like attracts Like! We will always attract a person or situation that embodies what we are vibrating at that time that embodies the person we think and believe we are! This is why it is so important to be conscious of how we are treating ourselves, and how we are allowing others to treat us. That is our compass as to where our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are within ourselves. Pay attention to where your thoughts, feelings, and belief systems are, so you can begin to heal and obliterate these thoughts, feelings, and limiting beliefs from your system.
Now, there is a very important step in finding and knowing your worth, FORGIVENESS! Forgiveness of others who have hurt you, and Forgiveness for yourself. You cannot know or find your self-worth if you are holding onto anger and pain towards the person who hurt you. It is just not possible. It is a blockage that needs to be released, so all of the good that you are meant to receive comes to you. The Universe/GOD/Source wants to give you all that you desire and deserve, but it cannot do so if you are holding onto resistance. How you are feeling, thinking, and believing are what the Universe/God/Source responds to. If you do not feel you are enough, and not deserving of much, that is exactly what you will receive in the end.
Remember, when I said FORGIVENESS, I also said Forgiveness for YOURSELF! This is crucial! Usually, when we have so many limiting beliefs as to who we think we are and are capable of, we practice self-sabotaging behaviors. I know this well. I have been a master of self-sabotage, and I understand the importance of Forgiveness. I cry as I write this because this was my toughest feat. It was so hard to understand that I needed to forgive myself for my past behaviors. I needed to examine everything without judgment. I judged myself plenty, but in the end, I understood that we are human and are meant to err. That is how we learn and grow.
You have to see yourself with eyes of LOVE. The way God/Source/Universe sees us. When you can do that, you will be able to unload all of your judgments, beliefs, and ill feelings of yourself. You will see yourself with LOVE, and only LOVE! You will begin to understand that yes, YOU DO DESERVE MORE, that YOU ARE ENOUGH, YOU ARE WORTHY! YOU ARE PURE DIVINE LOVE! That is WHO YOU ARE, and GOD/Source/Universe will gladly respond to your new found Self-worth! All of the Abundance that is innately yours will be given to you, and you will want for nothing! KNOW YOUR WORTH, and SHINE YOUR LIGHT!!!
Love, Light, and Blessings to ALL!!!
