Dear Deziree,
I am a strategic life coach trained through the Tony Robbins and Madness Institute. I love coaching and helping others gain perspective and seeing things differently to create a flow to what makes them happy. I love helping to shift and to dismantle the lives or limiting beliefs that hold them back. While I know I have my own.
I have my own business that I started and just recently created my own website. However, I have only one client and she is a friend. I think she feels bad for me. Anyhow, I don’t think I’m vibrating where I should be and attracting any clients. Perhaps I have the mindset that I don’t have money and need an income so attracting clients that have no money to even get coached. Maybe it’s more.
I have been pushing through this obstacle for 2 years now and still can’t figure out why my business isn’t flowing. Makes me think perhaps I shouldn’t be doing coaching like this. Maybe it looks different for me.
I struggle with people liking me and wanting to hear what I have to say and I am much more open spiritually than my church family. I think I’m afraid also that they will cut me off if they hear the things in my heart. Hope this wasn’t too much.
Thank You,
~ “What’s holding me back”
Dear “What’s holding me back”,
I hate to say it, but you are holding you back! My intuition tells me your biggest challenge in all of this is your Self-Confidence.
It sounds to me like you have gained some knowledge from your time with Tony Robbins and The Madness Institute in regards to helping others gain perspective and seeing what makes them happy as well as an understanding of pinpointing limiting beliefs and dismantling them? If this is the case, my suggestion would be to take all that you learned as a “Coach” and start from the beginning of that process that you were taught and apply it to your life.
In order to coach/teach others, one must do their own work first. Having a lack of self-confidence will definitely bring the feelings of feeling sorry for yourself which will attract people to confirm this belief you have created about yourself. It sounds to me that your Ego self is really in need of facing and dismantling. The Mind/Ego will have you believe all these excuses around money, your confidence and abilities to do the work that you feel passionate about.
You mentioned the church family and worry what they will think? My dear, nobody has the right to judge you or anyone, we are all here to love and support each other. It sounds like your heart is in the right place but you are not quite done with the soul level work that you need to finish to be the terrific coach that is waiting to help the masses.
Please, read the book “Soul Contracts” by Danielle Mac Kinnon , it will help you a great deal to get your work done to understand where you’re stuck. Please keep me posted!
Be Extraordinary,
Kimberly Deziree
The intention of Dear Deziree is to use the intuitive gifts of Kimberly Deziree to give you guidance regarding your spiritual business. As with EVERYTHING in life, we need to take 100% responsibility for ourselves. Her response is meant to give you guidance, but ultimately you are responsible for you. Enjoy!
