Nicola Henderson is a Soul Coach and Cosmic Mentor. She offers empowered service to assist people in realizing their purpose, claiming their power, and returning to their core Self. Nicola weaves Coaching, Mentoring, Psychic Surgery, Astrology, and Human Design into her sessions to facilitate the greatest level of change in the most supportive, effective, and empowering way possible. You can find Nicola on www.nicolahenderson.co/
Welcome everybody, welcome to Spiritual Biz Chat for Spiritual Biz Magazine, and today we have joining us a very special to Maska Media guest, Nicola Henderson. Welcome, Nicola, thank you for being with us, how are you doing today?
Nicola Henderson: Hi Kimberly, I’m great, thanks for having me! It’s such an honour and privilege to be here with you now.
It’s a pleasure to have you here, Nicola! One of the hot topics in the spiritual world right now is understanding each state of consciousness and shifting from one to another. The process of spiritual growth can be scary to some, what are some ways to make that fear productive instead of allowing it to spiral out of control?
Nicola: The most productive way to look at fear is to see it as a tool, or a compass of sorts. Most of the time our fear is just an elaborate and deeply engrained story that we’ve told ourselves for many lifetimes. And this fear can get triggered in any number of ways – fear of the future, fear of judgment, fear of rejection, fear of spiders… haha. And it is exactly this fear that will hold us back from doing the very things we so desire to do. And again, this can run on many levels. Fear of quitting your job so you may start a heart-lead business. Fear of what may happen if you truly let go of attaching to the opinion of others. Fear of releasing the illusionary protective shield of shame we hold onto so tightly around our bodies, our proclivities, our desires. We cocoon ourselves – or perhaps “coffin” ourselves if you will – in the name of safety and security but without ever realizing the foundations of this apparent safety are built on the misaligned illusion of fear.
So what do we do? We get to work. We deprogram, destroy, and uncreate the fear programs. We consciously choose love. We build new foundations on Trust, on empowered action, on the knowingness that we are far more powerful than we may ever come to understand in this Earthly realm. Earth was designed after all, to teach us things for Soul growth. For us to forget, only to remember again. How better to grow and ascend than to exist amongst such pain, sadness, terror, and also limitless beauty, abundance, and grace? We must take everything in our stride. We must trust that it is the light drawing out the pain and the darkness within, so we may shine ever-more brightly for the good of all. It only takes one small match to light a pitch-black room, and that match is the flame of compassion. We are all finding our way back to our innocence, our Divinity, to the love that we are, and the catalyst and guiding light that mitigates the terror is compassion.
Congratulations on graduating from Spiritual Biz Coaching! But first, let’s take a step back… what was your path of spiritual growth and your steps to make your calling a business? And then a step forward… how did you come across Spiritual biz Coaching and choose Kimberly Maska as your mentor over many other business coaches and experts out there?
Nicola: I’ve always considered myself Spiritual, but nothing really made it past skin deep until I had my rapid Soul awakening in 2020. My mind was blown, and life was never to be the same again. My old life in corporate was no longer in alignment with who was coming out of me. I knew I had to try building a business helping people, but I had no idea what that would look like. I was battling an eating disorder, learning to love myself, and face to face with my death grip on the safety I thought my job provided me. I had a lot of meltdowns. Many revelations, too. I spent a lot of money on figuring out who I was, giving it all I had to expand myself out to a fuller and happier version of myself. It’s been quite a journey.
The first time I saw you was on a summit and I remember knowing that I needed your help in guiding me towards what my spiritually led business would look like. Committing to Spiritual Biz Coaching was the reassurance I needed to leave my job and trust that I’d be able to make it work as a spiritual entrepreneur. You have been a solid and consistent mentor to help myself and the others in the coaching program work through our wobbles and 2nd or 3rd awakenings, patiently supporting and encouraging us through what can feel like an extremely challenging time. When you commit to becoming a spiritual entrepreneur, you also commit to a lifetime of continual spiritual growth, emotional processing, shadow work, self-responsibility, integrity, care, and trust. It’s incredibly rewarding, and with many ‘opportunities for growth’ sprinkled throughout!
Those “first enrollment” stories are our favorite and are so exhilarating! What is your “first client” story? What was that feeling like in that moment?
Nicola: Oh gosh yes! I am sure she was divinely delivered from heaven. This woman was my first booking for a Human Design reading that pinged my PayPal on a Saturday night saying that I had received the money. Now THAT is an amazing feeling! This same woman went on to book a full coaching package with me and I am so grateful for her. There’s definitely a Soul Sister connection going on between us!
And more congratulations are in order! You’ve released a new online coaching program where you now share your cosmic mentoring and intuitive guidance with a broader public. Can you share with us a bit about it? Who is it for? What do you think sets your coaching sessions apart from other spiritual programs out there?
Nicola: Thank you! It feels amazing and I am so grateful to be doing work that brings me so much joy. My coaching package provides a complete transformational journey and the sessions include a blend of coaching, mentoring, astrology, human design, meditative journeying, energy clearing, and psychic surgery. I love all things Galactic and play in the quantum realm regularly. I hold the “grid” for people energetically which is part of my design as a Projector. I’m a wise guide, coach, and mentor and take a light-hearted approach to this work that can often feel so serious.
I thrive on working with people who are in pain and ready to change. They know they have a greater purpose but need help transitioning out of the trappings of the 3D. They feel shame in their bodies and are seeking liberation. They feel blocked and locked and unsure how to step into the life they dream of living. I love working with both men and women and take on a supportive and empowering approach in my coaching. My clients feel seen, safe, and supported and they appreciate knowing I’m also there for them in between sessions when they need.
I live what I teach – an empowered life of freedom, trust, compassion, peace, prosperity, and joy.
With all the current negative noise around us today including the coronavirus, more and more people are turning to lightworkers in their search for peace and comfort and to deal with their fears. What is your ultimate recipe to free ourselves from the limitations of fear-based thinking?
Nicola: Indeed, what a crazy time to be alive! My advice is to tend to your own vibration. To trust that when you spread love and compassion, you are also a lightworker. To do your best to abstain from all judgment, for we are all on our own journeys. To hold compassion for yourself and for others, for we are all doing our best. To surround yourself with supportive, loving, non-judgmental people. To take everything you hear with a grain of salt. And if you find yourself shrouded in fear, you’ve just found an opportunity to do some more work around trust. Because when you trust yourself and you anchor into that trust, nothing on the outside can rattle you.
Is there a final message you want to let our readers know? Or just any last little words that you have for them?
Nicola: This journey, this work, is at once the most challenging path you can go down, and the most fulfilling. Sometimes you feel on top of the world, and sometimes you feel smaller than nothing. And that’s OK. What’s most important, is just to feel. There is such profound beauty and safety available to you in your body. It’s really about full embodiment now. You are a Divine multi-dimensional being in physical form and you get to have it all because you are it all. You are loved beyond measure. So go forth, be bold, and don’t forget to enjoy this life. Your passions, your interests, are not by accident. They are a clue to your greatest success and your greatest fulfillment. Follow your heart and you will not be lead astray.
Thank you, Nicola, very much! It has been such a pleasure chatting with you today!
Nicola: Thank you, Kimberly, the pleasure has been all mine! I appreciate you and the opportunities you’ve provided me. Thank you so much.
