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Spring-Clean Your Love Life

GUESSSSS WHAT TIME OF THE YEAR IT IS!!! 
SPRING CLEANING TIME!!!  

Everyone is running around cleaning their house, moving in new furniture, rearranging the living room, pulling out the Spring and Summer clothes preparing to retire their winter clothes, tossing out toys, reorganizing the garage, compartmentalizing the basement, cleaning out cars, painting, remodeling the house, and all the other things that those who participate do.

Rarely do we ever Spring Clean the things that free our spirit in the act of self-love? No, I’m not talking about throwing away souvenirs from past relationships or cutting off your current dating options- though you should but this article is not that today. Today we discussing YOUR LOVE for yourself, hence the meaning of YOUR LOVE LIFE!

Occasionally we tend to allow our lives to get spiritually and mentally cluttered and we don’t set a clean out the date until we have a season of depression! We call it “normal” stress and keep going on about our lives with this toxicity in it. You’re probably saying yourself, “not me” or “what is she talking about my spirit is free and my mind is clear”. Is it? Let’s take the clutter test.

Do you dread waking every day to report a job that you don’t enjoy?

Have you found yourself too tired or withdrawn to meditate, read or listen to books or videos?

Do you have a person in your life that you accommodate because you are afraid of how they will feel if you tell them that you don’t wish to honor their expectations of you?

Do you have a business or a burning desire to start a business but you keep putting it off?

Are you always yelling at your kids instead of practicing effective communication? Or putting off time with your kids because you’re “busy”?

Is your social media full of friends and followers but no engagement?

If you answered Yes to any of these questions it’s time to Spring Clean ALL of that clutter!

This Spring Cleaning has long term lasting effects such as peace of mind, joy, self-love, and the love you give to others. Commit to loving yourself and clean out everything that doesn’t feel good to you. You are unable to be your best self if you are weighed down. Step into your self worth and declutter.

Guess what we are cleaning out?!! 

♥♥   People who deplete you; don’t encourage you; tear you down; always complain; never celebrate you; never take ownership; have no goals, dreams, or ambitions!

♥♥   That job that you dread waking to go to every day

♥♥   That family member that doesn’t act like family

♥♥   That fear to start your own business

♥♥   That fear to spend money on yourself because the world made you believe to be a good parent you had to look rundown

♥♥   The fear of going on that vacation and not having enough money

♥♥   clean up your social media! Delete inactive friends, leave groups that you don’t visit or contribute to, delete accounts you don’t use

♥♥   Fire that coach you’re too scared to tell that they aren’t helping you

♥♥   Forgive all those people that wronged you

♥♥   Get rid of your ex’s stuff you let linger around your house

♥♥   Let go of the victim and step into your power

♥♥   Let go of the pressure to live up to everyone’s image of you

Spring Clean all that mess out!!! Smell the air, feel the sun, sink your bare feet in the dirt! Give thanks for another day to learn to love you right and do something you never did before but wanted to!!! Then tell someone all about it!

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