Forgiveness is the sacred must-have business tool that heals relationships, unlocks confidence, clarity, passion, and TRUE abundance.
Forgiveness is the missing piece most people don’t know about when it comes to expanding past current impact and earning levels.
It’s a tool anyone can use to align even more with their true nature.
The more you align with your true nature, the more natural confidence, clarity, and penchant for true abundance are unlocked.
If you don’t learn how to forgive, you’ll continue to endure, repeating patterns of struggle, betrayal, limit, and lack.
If you don’t learn how to forgive, you’ll continue to self-sabotage your progress and won’t be able to make a bigger difference with your business and generate a sustainable living by doing it.
Today you’ll learn WHY forgiveness is a must-have business tool and be introduced to the 7 steps of complete forgiveness so that you know the steps to be free of the entanglements of betrayal and be open to positive shifts in your reality.
Some people believe that forgiving means what was done to them, or what they’ve done to themselves or others makes everything OK… when what happened wasn’t OK at all.
It can feel really hard to accept betrayals as not punishable because rules were broken and someone has to pay or be punished.
When blame is in play, instead of using your energy to build and expand your business, unconsciously, you’ll use your energy to attract struggle and punishment.
This happens because someone who is unforgivable still needs to be punished.
Unforgivable means the blame is not over, there has been no lesson, there’s been no justice, no compensation, no sacred closing of the betrayal.
Most of us aren’t even be aware we are carrying the energy of blame or shame.
But when you hear yourself saying, “I should have known better”, or “I should have been stronger or smarter”, that is a signal that there is something to forgive about yourself.
If you hear yourself saying, “They should have…”, that is a signal there is something to forgive about another.
To be clear, if you have stuff in your life that feels like a punishment, or a constant struggle, it’s likely an unforgiven betrayal is the cause.
Betrayal punishment can look like:
- Not being able to take a vacation,
- Having debt balances that don’t go away,
- Income never sustained past a certain level … that you wish was higher,
- Failure to launch new products or services,
- Irritation customers or not enough customers,
- Always feeling anxiety, doubt, or guilt,
- Or, you never feel REALLY GOOD ENOUGH.
Forgiveness changes your reality because it opens the possibilities of a better future right away. Once you’ve forgiven, the universe shifts in your favor.
Codependency with children is a marvelous opportunity for self-forgiveness. Once you’ve forgiven yourself for parenting mistakes, the resulting energy shift releases you to hold the strong loving boundaries your children really need.
Then something magical happens with them. All of a sudden they start making their way in the world.
One of my clients blamed herself for parenting mistakes she made as a single mom that left her son physically impaired.
At age 45 he was still leaning on her to pay his rent and thousands of dollars to pay for a surgery to repair damage from a long-ago mistake that wasn’t her fault, but she continued to blame herself for.
Two days after a forgiveness coaching/healing session, she called to say that her son had begun revamping his business and was earning money again. He also had found a new MD with a better, more affordable healing plan.
The day after her second forgiveness session with me, she called to exclaim with joy, because her son, who always had treated her very disrespectfully, was apologizing for his behavior, asking forgiveness, and thanking her for all the help and support she had given him over the years.
She felt a huge weight of responsibility had lifted and wasn’t buried with his dramas. Instead of putting out his fires all the time, she was able to redirect her energies into building and growing her business… this time from a place of true service, instead of “I have to earn money to rescue, to save my son.”
That is what can happen in reality when processing betrayals into forgiveness. Forgiveness changes your reality in positive life-affirming ways. Forgiveness is a sacred act that turns cycles of self-punishment into cycles of peace, ease, and True Abundance.
Forgiveness topics that lead to business breakthroughs are:
- Past financial traumas,
- Past business betrayals, mistakes, and failures,
- Codependency with your children,
- Parental mistakes and mistreatment,
- Self betrayals.
It may not seem true, but when you look at betrayals from a spiritual point of view, betrayals are gifts in disguise,
In the spiritual world, forgiveness is the highest form of love because it’s completely unconditional.
Those that hurt and betray you the most are your finest soul mates because when you have forgiven completely, you have chosen love over fear, and at the same time, you’ll have lifted a layer of ego dominance from the world.
Which collective consciously speaking lightens the load, and makes it easier for others to forgive their betrayers.
Not only does your world change for the better, but the entire world also becomes a little bit lighter, healthier, and more aligned with the light.
Below is a 7 step checklist, so that when you do go to forgive your past, either by yourself or with a skilled healer, all the aspects, all the sides, and considerations of the situation can be healed completely and reality can shift in your favor.
I highly recommend calling in Divine help to support you to shift completely.
- Decide on the betrayal to forgive & become clear about how it’s costing you presently.
- Decide your positive outcome; how you’d rather be treated.
- Validate your anger in private and channel it into deservingness (how you’d rather be treated).
- Bring in self-understanding & compassion for allowing yourself to be victimized.
- Accept and forgive your self for believing the betrayer (AKA being duped).
- Be willing to bring in compassion, acceptance, and forgiveness for the betrayer.
- Set an energetic boundary around both you and the betrayer.
There you have it, a short summary of how forgiveness is a must-have tool for business breakthroughs. If you feel comfortable, you can forgive on your own. I suggest calling in Divine help and spend sacred time journaling about your betrayals using the 7 steps I shared as an outline to follow.
For your worst betrayals is wise to have a seasoned forgiveness expert to guide you through the forgiveness processes. They have the real-life wisdom to hold the sacred space you need in order to accept, forgive, let go, and heal.
It’s a Spiritual Principle that you hold the power to create your own destiny, don’t let past betrayals prevent you from creating yours.
