Hmmm… That’s a good question! But I’m having trouble answering that because nobody ever asked me that before.
In fact, I thought I was supposed to do what everyone else wanted of me so that I could be a good person.
I thought I was supposed to please other people so they wouldn’t feel sad or disappointed or insecure.
And I just wanted them to love me, so I did what other people wanted me to do.
What’s that? Oh, I’m hearing that it’s time to switch that around! I get to choose what I want.
And if I don’t consciously choose what I want, I will unconsciously get what other people want from me. And life will suck!
I am wondering… why do I think what other people want of me is more important than what I want for myself?
Ohhhh! It’s because I don’t feel worthy unless somebody loves me.
And other people don’t feel worthy unless somebody does what they want them to do so they don’t feel their unworthiness!
It looks like we’re all just running around our unworthiness!
What if I took responsibility to heal the part of me that does not feel worthy and allow the other person to take care of their unworthiness however they so choose? What would that look like?
I’ll tell you what that looks like. It looks like I come into my unlimited value and power, and I start consciously creating the life that I want so that I can be happy and healthy and create for the Greater Good.
Goodbye, people pleasing. Hello, loving myself.
I have to go now because I need to write down all the stuff that I want to create in my life. This is so fun!
